You met an amazing South African girl. She’s gorgeous, funny, intelligent, and doesn’t seem to be out of her mind crazy. Obviously, you want her to be madly in love with you. Nothing’s worse than getting shoved into the friend zone or getting so nervous to impress that you scare her away indefinitely.
How To Make a South African Woman Love You
Here are the ten things to do, to make that South African Lady fall in love with you.
1. Be consistent
Don’t give in to first impressions, it’s okay if you did not appear impressive the first time you met. Just prove to her that you have a lot more to offer. It is highly important you be yourself no matter what.
2. Be a Gentleman
Being a gentleman involves treating her like a lady, like a princess and like a queen. You have to be courteous and treat her with respect. Being a gentleman also implies being attentive to what a woman wants and needs, yet in the same regard they understand their own value and purpose.
Buy her flowers, and when you guys go out to be sure to open the door, pull the chair for her, and allow her to walk in front, while you protect her from behind when navigating through a dark alley.
3. Get to know her crowd or be a part of her world
One important thing to do to make her love you is to try to know about her and try to be a part of her world. You can do this by making an effort to meet her friends, the people inside her social circle, but you must not fake it you must try to be yourself.
Learn about her interest, what she likes, and try to be really connected to her, such that you know when she is fine and when she is not fine even when she is putting on a fake smile. Getting know about her tradition is not a bad idea, chances are that she will respect you a lot more than if you didn’t.
4. Have a Good Sense of Humour
Women love to laugh and always rate a sense of humour at the top of their list, so show her you’re easy-going by telling a story that highlights a clumsy moment.
According to Jeffrey Hall, PhD, in a research titled “Sexual selection and humour in courtship, A case for warmth and Extroversion”, he concluded that when strangers meet, the more times a man tries to be funny and the more times a woman laughs at those attempts, the more likely it is for the woman to be interested in dating.
5. Be a good and sincere listener
According to a new study published in the journal science of nature, being a good listener is actually a really attractive trait to have, especially for men looking to attract women.
Furthermore, according to Dr Jennifer Rhodes, licensed psychologist and founder of the bi-coastal consultancy, Rapport Relationships, says that “when people talk to someone whom they feel takes time to listen, they feel safe and understood.”
So to get her to love you, you have to listen to her thoughts and show interest in her stories. Be a good listener and show her that you care about what she feels, as this is one of the ways to get to know her better.
6. Be confident and Bold
Be it your first date or you guys have reached a particular phase in your relationship, you have to be confident to get her to love you. You have to speak with a strong, and sure voice, this does not imply yelling at her. Women love confident guys and they find them so attractive.
According to Marni Kinrys from The Wing Girl method confidence, it’s attractive because as a woman I want to be attached to the man provides me with the highest chance of keeping me alive. She later went on to say that women are attracted to men with confidence because we innately feel that these men will be able to take care of us no matter what happens.
7. Make those late night calls
Although excessive calls might become boring, calling her is very important, but another important thing is the timing of the call. If you want to make her like you, start calling her up or texting her late into the night and make sure to tease and flirt with her whenever you guys talk.
8. Compliment her the right way
Is she particularly looking good today, or has she done something with her hair, compliment her about it. Make her feel beautiful both on the inside and outside. You have to go beyond the standard “You are pretty” compliment.
Instead, go for things like you make me feel so comfortable, you have a beautiful soul, you are my everything, and so many others.
9. Be Patient
You have to a break and back off from time to time especially in those early stages. You might screw things up when you get so excited, by texting her too much or rushing things. Be unavailable and have hobbies but always find time for her and don’t consistently be the first to text or call, or do both too much.
10 Physical Contact
It doesn’t matter which phase of a relationship you’re in, physical contacts are one of the ways to make a girl fall in love with you. Every now and then, find an excuse to touch her, be it her new earrings, her strand of her hair, or while crossing a busy street.